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Post by bella on Aug 20, 2008 20:33:58 GMT -5
I know this forum is supposed to be for boys... but I have a question about them. Do guys have the same unwritten friend laws as girls? For example, If I hook up with one guy for a while is it acceptable to later hook up with his best friend?
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Post by Amy aka ~The Oracle~ on Aug 20, 2008 21:15:00 GMT -5
Haha, I only wish I had an answer for that.
Friends is tricky. Obviously with your girl friends the unwritten rule is that you never hook up with a guy your friend has dated or liked or anything.
I have no clue if it's the same for guys. I'm going to assume that it depends on the level of seriousness of your relationship with the first guy. Say if you guys dated for like 2 years -- probably not a good idea to later hook up with his best friend just because even if neither of them seem like they care, it might cause a rift later on and you don't want to be to blame for that.
But if it was just kind of a...hook up buddies kind of thing, I wouldn't think it would be that big of a deal.
Not sure though -- a guy could probably be of some assistance here...
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Post by "The Trilogy" on Aug 20, 2008 22:21:56 GMT -5
Well, as an expert on hookin up with the same girls as friends, roommates, teammates, and fraternity brothers, maybe I can shed some light on the subject.
If the guy your currently hooking up with doesn't really like you (i.e. drunk late night calls and/or he's hooking up with someone else) then it should be fine.
If the guy likes you a bit, I would tread carefully but as long as you've made it clear about where you guys stand as drunk dial confidants, should still be ok.
If you know or should know that this guy really likes you, I'd suggest avoiding the friends. Guys are naturally competitive, so anything involving the same girl is dangerous.
Example from my life...2 of my buddies hooked up with same girl from home, but neither of them really liked her, so we laughed it off and all 3 of us went to a movie.
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Same two guys. One hooked up with an ex 2 days after the other guy broke up with her, and they haven't spoken since.
From your sake, technically nothing you do is "wrong" because it's his friends, but you shouldn't want to be that girl.
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Post by cvals14 on Aug 21, 2008 8:49:46 GMT -5
I would go about punching my friend in the mouth if he hooked up with an ex no less than 2 weeks to a month after, depending on the friend, if he's a scum-bag like some of my frat brothers, i'd give the okay 2 weeks later, because i know he's only using the poor girl (and if it was a mess break up, I'd play a prank on the both of them while in the act)...
as far as standard hook-ups go, I'd be okay with hooking up with the same girl as a buddy, but if it got to the point that we're sitting in the same room watching a game (usually the late night west-coast college football game), and we both get the exact same text (and yes this has happened). That's when i call it off with the broad.
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Post by Mr.MorningSTAR-Young Franchise on Sept 19, 2008 5:51:38 GMT -5
It's def gotta rely on guy A's feelings for girl A. If guy A was in love with that girl, she shouldn't try gettin with guy B. It'll end messy - I like to call this the OJ scenario.
Then again guys are scumbags, so I'd nail my man's ex for a spite fuck. Make damn well sure she's walkin funny the next day. Maybe even see if I can break her nose on the headboard. Something along those lines....
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